trust

Trust is what most people would tend not to have for people around them till they get acquainted for a pro-long period of time and yet there are people who would trust a total stranger without doubt. How does trust come about when we often question even those closest to us? We would go home, talk to our parents and even doubt what they just told you because you probably think that they are old and ignorant. We go have some drinking sessions with your boys / girls but do you actually believe every word that they told you?

Who would you trust your belongings with? Who would you trust your life with?

We would assume trust is something which is really simple and straight forward but in actual reality, trust is something hard to earn and GOD DAMN easy to lose. Once you've lost the trust it would take alot more than the first time to gain your creditability.

Relationships are built on trust... whether if it's a love relationship, family ties, working colleagues and any sort of relationship possible. How far would a relationship go if there isn't trust? Trust comes from both side as we would never asked to be trusted but present ourself to be worthy of trust. It's something gained and not asked for or rather not purchased with words and false action. Meanings of trust is something resembles what we call the link between souls.

When two individuals are related in any sort of situation, there are link for a common cause and they would have to trust each other in order to accomplish whatever they are meant to. Emotionals are dependent on how we are willing to rely on the other.

Compromising what we have and what we are about to have for the sake of that someone in our life that eventually might even leave us for something they believe to be true and worthy. Are we even in the right state of mind to judge what is right for us and what is worthy of our time? We think of the worse things that the person might be when we have lost trust in the person and if we actually have the trust on a total stranger, i am willing to even put my life in his hand. Afterall, it is what we've done that allow others to trust us; not what we tell others--I don't think going around asking people to trust you is efficient.

As we move ahead in life, the people that we allow ourself to trust reduces because of the fall and the obstacles that we've been through making us more defensive and less naive / gullible. The defence mechanism is purely something we never intend to put up but it is the best way we can survive in this harsh world of deceptions and deceits.

Being appreciate

Having a thought of being appreciation today and even few days before. How cruel it is, when someone didn't say thank you or express their thanks to us when it is the time.... And i know how God feels now and why we need to say Grace for food.. although i been thanking God for the food, weather, friends and blessings.

It's being so rudely when things happen, and someone doesn't appreciate things. Example.. when a mother buying a kids toy, the child doesn't even know to say thank you and just spoilt the toys. How would you react in this cases? Or a friend treating you good always and so do you do. But out of a sudden, you just say, "shut up, monkey." How would you wanna express your gratitude for someone being nice to you or you being nice to people?

@.@ Headache.. I wanna leave all these things aside by not thinking of it. But seeing such cases happen, i'm not satisfy with it. But God told me, don't be angry for the Satan will come and harm you more. And im still angry when i written this blog. I hope my anger will slowly faed away. Cause God ask me to love one another and not hate one another.

Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Shirley day

From the doorway..

Here she goes, cute shirley.

The Venom Bro is sitting down at the sofa once enter the doorway.

Another small sofa.

Here comes the bed. And this is the cheapest room of all.

Here comes the washroom, view from the room.

The cutest of all. They provide 2 bowl.... Haha..!! 1 for man and another for woman. So they wont argue for being late to toilet. Hehe..

It's not only a visitation, it's a lesson.

Contentment...
The secondary school children gets RM2 allowance per day.
The primary school children gets RM1 allowance per day.
Are you complaining about your RM5 per day?

They have simple meals,just enough to feed their hunger.
Are you complaining about going to 'Fatty Mok' every week?'

Second hand' clothes are their new clothes,
They wear clothes that someone has worn before.
Are you complaining about clothes bought from Carrefour?

Chances for them to go Form 6 are slim,
For some are even struggling with Form 1.
Are you complaining about going to TAR college?

They have difficulties in buying books, pens and papers.
Are you complaining about your computer, your laptops?
All of them have to share TV and radio.
Are you complaining about your handphone, MP3 player and your PSP?

Every day, they have to clean up the house on their own.
Are you complaining about your maid not cleaning the toilet, your clothes, your shoes?

Chinese and Indian, they live together.
Are you complaining about your sister and brother disturbing you in your room?

Above all these,
their parents are not with them,
their parents are not by their side.
They did not have the love and care from their parent.
Are you honoring and obeying your parent?

Cherish and be contented.

Stop complaining, start complimenting.
Stop craving, start sharing.
Stop hurting, start caring.

Quote From Uncle Charles